Help Your Son Become A Man

Lead a group of dads and middle school sons through a manhood rite of passage

First Tribe: Path to Manhood

Through this transformational group experience, you will:

  • develop a meaningful bond with your adolescent son
  • teach him important lessons about life, manhood and faith
  • build quality friendships with other dads and sons
  • create lasting memories and have a ton of fun!
 
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Dad, does this sound like you?

  • You want to teach your son about being a man, but you're just not sure where to start.
  • It's getting harder for you to connect with your son. You need some help knowing how to talk to him and enter his world.
  • Your son is growing less interested in you and more interested in his friends. But you're not sure you trust his friends to be the best influence on him. You want to help him be wise in the way he chooses his friends.
  • You want your son to be a young man you can be proud of. But at every turn, he seems to neglect responsibility, resist authority, and be unmotivated about the important things in life. You want to help him course correct, but none of what you're trying seems to work.
  • You pray for your son. You want him to develop a faith that is his own. But he seems uninterested at this point in his life. And when it comes to matters of faith, you feel really unqualified, maybe even intimidated, to try to help him. 

If this sounds like you, then you've come to the right place. First Tribe can be the experience you're looking for to help you make a lasting impact on your son's life!

As a result of being in First Tribe, your son will...

Have a clear picture of manhood

We'll push through the cultural confusion and arrive at a simple idea of what it means to be a man.

Learn how to make his faith his own

Gaining some practical skills and tools will help him move beyond a Sunday school faith.

Make good friends and fun memories

With regular activities, games and challenges, he'll have lots of ways to interact and have fun!

And as a dad, you will...

Talk with your son about all the important stuff

Taking responsibility, challenging himself, serving others, and even talking to women—we've got you covered on all of it!

Know how to connect with your middle school son

We'll give you some creative ways to engage with him around activities that you'll both enjoy, so you can easily enter into his world.

Feel like a hero

Seriously. How many dads do this with their sons? Not many. You'll be the cream of the crop. And you'll be able to look back on this season in your son's life with no regrets.

Purchase First Tribe Today

Plain and simple—First Tribe: Path to Manhood will change your life and your son's life as well. And it's available to purchase!

Don't miss out on this opportunity to impact your son!

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What's Included in First Tribe?

First Tribe is a 9-month group experience for dads with sons ages 11-15. The program is made up of once-a-month Tribe gatherings for all dads and sons together, plus activities for you and your son to do between gatherings. 

Everything you need to successfully launch and run your First Tribe is included in your purchase. Specifically, here's what you'll get:

Teaching

Teaching videos and meeting walkthroughs for all gatherings, covering the following topics:

  • Growing in strength and courage
  • Facing hard challenges
  • Learning the practices to follow Jesus
  • Serving others and accepting responibility
  • Avoiding temptation and treating women well
  • Developing quality friendships with other young men
  • PLUS, 2 special event ceremonies 

Activities

Instructions on how to do Manhood Challenges and Movie Nights between gatherings with your son.

  • Manhood Challenges include activities like:
    • Perform push-ups, sit-ups, run 1 mile
    • Make a tribute to an authority figure
    • Develop a spiritual training regimen
    • Teach a skill to your Tribe
  • Movie Nights include watching and discussing films like:
    • Batman Begins
    • Cinderella Man
    • The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe
    • The Greatest Showman

Training

As the dad who purchases First Tribe, you'll be the one to coordinate your Tribe over the 9 months you're together. We provide you everything you need to make it happen:

  • Setup videos to help you know who to invite, when to meet, and how to prepare for your gatherings
  • Step-by-step guides on how to run the special event ceremonies to create memorable experiences
  • Tips on how to involve other dads in hosting and leading Tribe gatherings

Tribe Kit

Your son will receive a physical kit, filled with items that will help him in his First Tribe journey.

  • String bag, journal, and stickers to record his progress at Tribe gatherings
  • Stationery, pen, and wax seal for making written mementos throughout his journey
  • Keepsake items to mark his completion, including a pocket knife and a special craft project

What Does a Typical Gathering Look Like?

Most First Tribe gatherings will follow the same basic format. Check out a sneak peek of Session 1 below.

1. Welcome

Tribe dads can rotate hosting the gatherings in their homes. You'll welcome everyone with snacks and drinks.

See the Meeting Outline

2. Game

What better way to begin than fun? Minute To Win It games are easy to execute and allow everyone to participate.

Watch the Game Video

3. Teaching

Show a pre-recorded lesson that covers the topic from a biblical perspective. Each lesson is engaging and even interactive!

Watch the Teaching Video

4. Discussion

Guide the group through discussion questions - some for the sons, some for the dads. All of it will help you learn from each other and apply the teaching.

Read the Discussion Questions

5. Challenge

Wrap up with a Manhood Challenge that ties in to the theme of the gathering, along with instructions on what to do before next time.

Watch the Challenge Video

How It Works

Here's what you do to get started with First Tribe:

Purchase First Tribe

This will give you access to all the digital content to run First Tribe, plus a Tribe Kit for your son. (Other dads in your Tribe will only need to purchase the Tribe Kit.)

Recruit Dads & Sons

We'll help you make a list of the ideal dads and sons to invite to your Tribe, and even walk you through how to do the inviting!

Confirm the Tribe

You'll host a dads' meeting to give them the details of what's involved. And then you'll get commitments from everyone who wants in.

Get Started!

Use the training videos and setup guides to prepare for your first gathering. You'll create an incredible Opening Ceremony that your son will never forget!

Do It For Your Son

Purchasing First Tribe will be one of the best decisions you make during this season of your son's life. 

When you look back on these years, you'll have no regrets about being the dad your son needed.

I'm Ready! Sign Me Up!

Meet Don Ross,
Creator of First Tribe

Hey, I'm Don, the founder and creator of Manhood Tribes, an organization dedicated to creating groups of extraordinary men who follow Jesus at every stage of life.

I've served as a pastor and ministry leader for the past couple decades, and have led and worked with men in a wide variety of settings.

I'm also a husband and a dad of two teenage sons. And it's out of my relationship with them that I started First Tribe. Like you, I wanted to make an impact on my sons during this stage of their lives.

And then it grew from there into helping other dads who want to do the same. I know you'll find First Tribe to be as beneficial as I have in helping your son become a man.

Don Ross, creator of First Tribe

"First Tribe is exactly what I needed to help me connect with my sons at this age. I'd recommend it to every dad."

Shaun S

"First Tribe is a master class in what it means to be a man."

Nate H

"It spurred on fantastic conversations, especially about important topics we face in everyday life as a man."

Aaron A

Frequently Asked Questions

Plus, You'll Be Backed by our Risk-Free 14 Day Guarantee

We get it. You're making a purchase over the internet. You want to know you can trust us.

And since it's an investment in your son, you want it to be worth every cent.

So here's how we're demonstrating that trustworthiness to you.

For 14 days, you'll be able to access the entire First Tribe program to see if it lives up to your expectations.

Within that timeframe, if something doesn't sit right with you, we ask that you make an effort to contact our support to see if we can help you through it.

If after that, you're still not satisfied, we'll happily refund your entire purchase.

Everything You Need - $199

With your purchase of First Tribe, you can feel confident that you'll get everything you need to usher your son into young manhood.

You'll receive access to all the digital content for First Tribe, which will set you up to lead the Tribe without a hitch.

Plus, your son will get the incredible Tribe Kit, packed with gifts and resources to help him make the most of his First Tribe experience.

Purchase First Tribe Now!

If you're thinking "this sounds amazing, but I'm still not 100% sure" then keep reading.

You should give First Tribe a 14-day risk-free shot if you're motivated by any of the following:

You want to make the most of this critical season in your son's life.

You know you only get one shot at making this count. In the blink of an eye, he'll be out of the house. Your opportunity to shape the kind of man he'll become is a brief window.

You want to take advantage of this season, but you could use some help knowing how to leave a lasting impression on your son.

You want your son to be the kind of man who can face the world with confidence.

Being a man in our culture today can be especially confusing. Your son won't get a clear picture of what being a man is all about.

You want to set him on a strong course. But you know that's going to take more than a good dad lecture, and you could use some help playing the long game.

You didn't get anything like this from your dad, but you really wish you had.

The lack of fathering in our culture has reached epidemic levels. You're the kind of man who wants that trend in your family line to end with you.

But it's hard to offer something to your son that you never received yourself. You really want to do this right, but you could use some guidance on how to be the dad your son truly needs.

Being a dad is hard.

I get it. I'm in the same boat with you. 

You work long and difficult hours to serve and provide for your family. But you know they need more from you than just that.

You do your best to show up for them. But, it rarely feels like your presence matters. Or like you're getting it right more often than not.

You long for that moment when you can step into the conversation, say just the right thing, and have everyone moving forward making wise decisions and being happy.

Sounds magical, right?

I'm gonna be real with you. When it comes to being a dad, there are no magic wands or silver bullets.

That's why I know how hard it is to want to connect with your son at this once-in-a-lifetime moment, but to also feel like you don't have a clue what to do.

That's where First Tribe came from.

It started with my own desire to connect with my sons. And then it grew into helping other dads who wanted to do the same.

Because honestly, isn't that what we all want, as men? Just a little help from another man who knows the way?

No one can do a better job of guiding your son than you. Because ultimately, your son isn't looking for guidance.

Your son is looking for you!

You can do this, dad. First Tribe can simply be the tool to help you be the dad you're already capable of being.

Making this investment in your son is a REALLY good idea!

I can't wait to meet you, teach you, and cheer you on inside First Tribe: Path to Manhood!

Praying blessings for you and your son,

Don Ross
Creator of First Tribe

The Best $199 Investment You Can Make

There's few things in life that are more valuable than investing in your son.

Do it for him. You'll be glad you did.

And so will he.

I'm Ready To Invest In My Son!